January 07th, 2009 | Categoria: xn--btvw8bh0b.com
I'm nearly 18, and i want to have a tattoo done after my birthday, but my mum has a massive problem with them. And i DONT want to lie to her about it, i want to tell her before i have it done, because its worse if i lie about it. Any tips??18 is 18 is 18, and you can do whatever you want when you get to that point.
But 29 is 29 is 29, and I've been so glad I never did anything I'd regret later.
Some of the things I would have had inked...
Well, my boy's 12 now, and there's no way I want him to do something he himself will regret later.
and I know that many tattoed people can't seem to stop themselves.
So, just think for yourself again.At first my mom didn't want me having tattoos either, now im covered and she is used to it, she doesn't mind one bit, they get crazy and then when they see it and its not so bad they are ok.Just tell her in a direct manner, why beat around the bush?tell her you wanna both get one together or just wait. 18 is all you gotta be.I turned 18 and I waited almost a year before I got mine, but my mum always said it was my body, my life and she couldn't tell me how to live it.
So I would say once you turn 18 go get it done, just make sure you can enjoy it.
eventually your mum will accept it, or she'll never talk about it.just say "it's my body and I am getting one," that is what I tell my husband who says he doesn't like them, but loves the one on my upper back btwn my shoulder blades...the problem is they really are addictive. good luckWell youll be 18 so you dont need her permission, just poke around with the idea, if she says no just say you respect her wishes but youre gonna get it done, it is your body but if youre lucky your mum will change her mind like mine did and ended up getting a tattoo right after me!Just go ahead and have it done. After all, you'll be 18 and there is nothing that your mom can do after it's done. I like tattooes but mostly the small ones. My daughter has tattooes and I like hers. She has her birth sign on her leg, her name on her shoulder, and a band of beads on her arm. I don't know what the big deal is about tattooes. My husband has both his arms with tattooes and he is now sorry for them but I like them.Just tell her that you are getting ____ tattoo in ____ location. If you are paying for it and of legal age to get a tattoo, I cannot see her throwing a fit over one tattoo. You are a legal adult and I'm sure you know what you are getting into.
You'd be surprised how well mothers take things sometimes. I thought my mom would freak about my first one, but it was the 2nd, 3rd, 4th and so on that got to her :-P
But she knows I'm an adult and able to deal with my own problems and consequences.
I'm sure it'll be okay. Good luck.Mommy! ( haha ) can i get a tattoo? i really love you!
NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~~~when you are 18 you wont need their permission i suppose. but i think you should explain that you really want one...AND that you would like them to come along with you!! - how about that?!! - they will love being involved and feel like you still need them ...crafty eh? - but it might work!!
remember..they dont want you to have one because they are older and know that one day you may regret it! get one where it can be covered by your clothing...ready for the day when you absolutely HATE it...and i promise...you will! your mum and dad only want the best for you honey...remember that!Just explain to her that you have thought about all of the pro's and con's, and you know about all of the what-if's and horror stories, and you have your heart set on getting a tattoo. Tell her that you are probably going to get it eventually no matter what she thinks, but that it would be a lot easier to have her support from the beggining. Good Luck!get one. who cares what your mother thinks. its just a tattoo.Thats easy... you dont tell her. Then you get it done and tell her after. Thats what i did when i got my belly pierced five years ago and it worked, at first my mum didnt like it and then she accepted it. The difference is, belly peircing isnt permanent and tatoos are. How do you know youre gonna like it in five years time? Why dont you try out a fake or get one done by a henna artist (henna is temporary- lasts a month) and see how your mum reacts. She might get used to it and then agree!Take all years of wisdom, advice, knowledge and love your mother has and flush it down the toilet. I am sure you know much better then she does what is best for you.Well if you want to tell them than spit it out or wait until its done and then tell them they cant stop you at 18 and besides not telling her until after its done isnt lying its just an omission until done so dont worry about how they feel about it they can throw a hissy fit and what ground you for putting art on your body instad of a wall the can get over it or dont tell them until like two years down the road unless you get it some where they can see very easily so those are my tipsi agree. you don't really need her permission. but i think its nice you don't want to lie to her about it. explain to her that you're an adult now. you're expressing yourself, and that you're not doing it to turn into a rebel. most mothers are worried about tattoos. just calmly explain to her how you'll still be the same. just DONT RAISE YOUR VOICE! super ineffective.tell her that it is your body and it is something you throught about for a while and it is something that you will not regret and it is for your 18th birthday so you are old enough to go get a tattoo.
good luck
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